I am not
single right now, but not so long ago I was single for two marvelous,
frustrating, incredible, and miserable years. Being single for me was a mixture
of all of this contrary feelings. I can honestly say that it was most prolific
time in my life. Why? Because I had to define for the second time in my life who
I am. If you are in a relationship you automatically give up some of things
that defines you. I love being in a relationship do not understand me
incorrectly, but look at some couples, they have usually similar ideas about
world, they often like spending spare time in the same way, sometimes they even
look similarly, and that’s cute of course, but… for me a question raises is
this really them. What will left of their ideas
if they are separated somehow? When I became single after 11 years of
being in relationship, I had to ask myself all of these questions: which part
of my life is actually mine, what do I like, what do I think, why I do some of
the things? Why do I spend my holidays every year in a cottage house if one of
my biggest dream ever was to see the world? And every year I promised myself
that next year we will go to the Crimea. We never did and there was always a
good argument why not this time. I do not blame anyone, I just think that you
have to be alone for some time to define for yourself what is really important
for you. Which things you can give up because you love somebody and which are
the core of you and without them you are only partly the person who you want to
be. Therefore, if you are single you have an unique opportunity to get to know
the person which should be most important in your life – you. Use this time and
no matter whether you will be single for life, or one day you will decide to
start a relationship, this time can be the most precious in your life. It was
in mine.I am SGL Tumblr blog
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